We are all victims of something, or someone.

June 22, 2009 by viodragon

I don’t know what to quite expect, but my step father and I had a bit of a falling out. I wrote a lot of truth and had to hit home on him with what he’s been doing. I got no clue what my own fate will be. He turned into someone quite inexcusable that can’t be dealt with. He had no business insulting me this morning like he did either. He needs help and he won’t get it. I’m just at a lost.

It sucks how god awful pathetic this whole world became. How too many people have to victimize other people. Does it really matter if we are victims by sex, by religion, by education, by neglect, by politics, by the law. It all becomes the exact same thing. We only change the players or the names.

Thus, people like me who fight tooth and nail to do the right thing, end up hurt and suffering by such things like hate and ignorance. My step father has grown too ignorant for his own good. Has no business taking it out on myself, and my mom like he does. All bark and he best not bite. Too many physical health problems for him to try.

This world isn’t like it use to be. People won’t work other people like they should. People cannot take care of themselves like they want to. I know. I’m one of those people sadly.

I border on demanding my rights to be able to take care of myself. No one has answers to my problems. Everywhere and on all levels. Debts are too high (which mind you there are plenty of people out there with debts so much worst than me) pay is too low and hours are not steady enough. This world is very evil indeed. I also can’t consolidate my loans. I can’t get better work. I can’t make my money work hard for me. My wishes and drives in life have been blocked against my will and my whim. I can’t seem to find that correct nitch that will be my very own to have.

I would love to have my money work hard for me. I can’t network like I need to. I just don’t have the pull. Then there is the problem of my parents, namely my step father, who only knows and hears what he wants. Too old school thought, too stuck in yesterday’s time. I can’t win.

So I don’t know how all this will eventually disfuse. I’ll wait and see. For now the terms seem neutral. I know better. He’ll stick to what he knows, and that sadly is ignorance.

What really pains and scars me is this. When who I am and what I am allowed to be are two completely different things. It can be more painful than any physical torture out there. I know I am not perfect. I know I make mistakes. I at least try. I do what I can to make my life better. Too many others told me no. Too many others refuse to let me live my very own life. I cannot live alone. but I am also being force to. What is a guy suppose to do?

Troubles with Today (Memorial Day Poem)

May 25, 2009 by viodragon

Trouble With Today

 

Greed, hate, animosity,

Blinded by the hopes we cannot see.

Banks won’t balance everyone’s financial needs,

Bullets to fill the air, causing the soulful to bleed.

 

Gas prices, oil prices, paying the price,

Uncle Sam is no longer being nice.

Gratitude is gone like yesterday’s news,

Someone out there demands that you lose.

 

Weekly check, weekly pay,

Criminal records to deny your say.

Mistake now made never forgiven,

Oppression and terrorism is today’s modern sin.

 

Hating words, hating those who are nude,

Want to kill all those who are lewd.

Never with a fraction of seeing the good,

Ask yourself, “Why I should?”

 

Freedom isn’t free on the thankless days.

Pay broken crooks punish the innocent in every way.

Coward we become behind the labels we desperately need.

No one will take it upon themselves to plant the positive seeds.

 

The trouble with today is we sacrifice too much.

Gave up on the virtues that make our lives blessed.

We wonder in silent pity why we did such.

Everything is now beyond a fixable discombobulating mess.

 

This isn’t true.  It will take effort to fix.

Put your mind to it and create your own mix.

Of what it means to be bless with freedom this day.

Thank you solders who died for us all to even have a say.

 

Bastardize what you are bless with,

Bad karma will return to you.

Try being thankful with all that you can do.

No one is ever going to be perfect 100% of the way.

Always demanding such and disrespecting those who aren’t that,

This is the trouble with today.

 

Oil or religion or freedom of speech.

Politics or wars or ways to preserve the peace.

Evil work too fast and sometimes in nasty ways.

To give up fighting the good fight.

And put and end to the troubles of today.

 

Be thankful and bless that we have such good wealth.

We much all stabilize what will keep us all in good health.

 

Stop with the greed and stop with the pain.

Help put and end to everything that has us insane.

Rather it be sex or work or daily living being normal.

Unite together to keep what our unique differences are formal.

 

The world isn’t perfect 100% of someone’s perceived way.

Doesn’t mean we give up helping to end the troubles with today.

 

So peace be with all and may we all find what we seek.

Freedom in heart and soul, love, hope and care is what we must keep.

 

Happy  Memorial Day.

We All Must Always Move On.

May 11, 2009 by viodragon

 We All Must Always Move On

 

            Well, I am more recovered from my previous week of financial frustration.  I still think there is a sense of financial terrorism going on.  Definitely financial oppression, to say the very least.

 

            One thing to always keep in mind is life does always go on, no matter what happens.  (Which probably ironically enough will also include the ending of our very own life and existence.  Though I hope this will never occur.)  We all must always move on. 

 

            I caught a commercial once, need to find it again to check in on this organization that looks to protect children from basically the kidnapping and killings that occur.  I’m wondering if they could help me run my own idea of helping to stop sex offense before it needs to happen, my whole sex offense awareness and prevention. (S.O.A.P.)  I’m at a point in life where I wish I had the know how to make this a lasting career choice for me.

 

            Making things happen has become increasingly difficult in today’s times.  Should we enforce laws and threaten possible war if certain people out there don’t make the necessary changes in life?  Do we, or must we exercise a force ready and willing to die once again against what is plaguing our modern future?  I rather this be no, but what I want and what is reality has usually been two different things.  Sometimes too different even for my own good.

 

  1. Money isn’t everything but we sure make it a little too important in life.

 

            I got some good positives working in my favor as well.  Granted I also host a separate identity on something that has turn into a wonderful social experience for me, that I am proud to experience.  I will go into zero details here.  Let’s leave it at evil stereotypes don’t apply, and a wonderful atmosphere which must be experience for yourself to understand is something that does apply.  God bless this for being so.

 

            My possible love and future romantic interest also comes from this.  I believe I am 95 out of 100% to finally being able to move up from being single to saying I am finally “in a relationship.”  And this is something that means more to me that the world itself.  (Amazing how love can heal all.)

 

            My current job situation isn’t bad, for now, but my hours are still unstable and that don’t make me all that happy.  Finding better work or just a third supportive income is also a mission impossible.

 

            Business opportunities and people who want me to spend money to earn money or make my life better MUST AVOID ME LIKE THE PLAGUE!!!  Or for a more modern situation, like swine flu!  They all do nothing now but piss me off beyond belief. 

 

            I hate not winning in this life when it comes to just trying to achieve the simplest of goals.  I still count my blessings but my stomach will still do knots knowing how fast my blessings could disappear.  No one ever deserves this.

 

            Worldly looking, which isn’t much these days.  Too many people have gone sick and inconsiderate.  From hearing some stories on how some parents decided to name their kids.  (Some funny and others just sad.)  Top of this list is, I should learn how to type English sounds for this, because it is just that much better to say this verbally than typing; anyways, the top of this list is pronounce shi- teed.  The parents spell it S-h-I (this is the first part of the pronouncing of the name) T-H-E-A-D. 

 

            Congratulations moron parents, you just named your kid shithead.  By all means go ahead and keep telling yourselves how it is suppose to be pronounced, others are always going to beg to differ constantly.  I liked how Orange Jello and Lemon Jello also became re-pronounce names.  Though La-Sha, actually pronounce La-dash-sha (what is this world coming too?) is another fun one I’ve heard.

 

            Try naming your kids correctly with the English language if you are going to reproduce like rabbits. 

 

            But when it comes to the greedy, the corruptive, the stupid and the ignorant, I only ask myself why must there be so many of them?  I almost want to fire back how about you all stop impending on my rights to being an honest and hard working American citizen?  Don’t impend on my rights of appreciating words like “In god we trust.” On money knowing it is our heritage, not some religion lack of separation of state and church.  Stop impending on my rights to be an honest tax payer, to want to earn a living, to want to be successful, and to want to help others not make bad decisions or mistakes in life.

 

            I still believe we got people out there who rely on your lack of well being to be their pay check.  Rather it is in the medical field, criminal justice, or even creditors.  This world has lost touch on the basics a little too much. 

 

            We cannot afford to lose our most sacred and endearing virtues that make this country so great to begin with.  Keeping in mind you cannot please all of the people all of the time, still aim for most of the people most of the time. 

 

            So I hope to be back more on track as time goes along.  I’ll still plug out blog articles on how to help end sex offense.  Know the difference between sex offense and sex crimes.  What we should do to regain a balance control on this economy.  Get back to taking care of the people who allow this economy to exist to begin with.  Put the corrupt out there on notice that they are being monitored and they don’t have half the power they think they have.  Just regain control of our united nation. 

 

            Replace fear, paranoia, and hate with focus, determination, education, and respect.  It really isn’t as hard as it has been painted out.  It just has one hell of a barrier to break through and without a sense of unity, then we did allow terrorist to win their war on us.

 

            Be proud of yourselves and keep fighting the good fight fellow blog readers and writers.

 

            Be good, be strong and be safe.  Life will always go on.  Peace.

Financial Terrorism

May 2, 2009 by viodragon

Financial Terrorism

 

            I’m growing way too intolerant of the money entrapments in this world.  No one is going to legitimately allow you to earn an extra 100 to 5000 per week for anything.  Credit reports, creditors, major job insecurities, cost of living too high, pay checks too low, taxes too high, etc.  I think it is time to call this era for what it’s become.

 

            This is all financial terrorism.  Our system has place fear into our money needs, making it impossible for any individual to truly take care of themselves, unless they got some conspiracy protection “in” that we hear on television shows and movies.

 

            The absurdness of it all HAS TO STOP.  We are bordering on ending our own existence over this money chaos and madness.

 

            My thoughts have been nothing but unholy the past couple of days, all due to lack of money, lack of cooperation, hearing once again that wonderful lie of spending money to make my life better; I’m sorry, but I am beyond sick and tired of this cycle plaguing my life like it is.

 

            So enough of the crimes and the lies and the bullshit people.  Ban together and help put an end to all this new wave financial terrorism.  Put and end to people fearing spending money this system won’t let them earn to begin with.  Put and end to these games and make earning a living a law, a Constitution Law if we must.  End Unemployment and establish Reemployment.  Stop letting money force people to commit crimes, do unthinkable acts, and force decisions that shouldn’t even have to exist.

 

            Let’s call this crisis for what it is.  This economy is nothing but financial terrorism.  Stop the games and nonsense and start securing the financial needs of every citizen in this country.

 

            Can we also try to do this without the need of baring arms against ourselves as well?  Why must it take a threat to existence to make us do what is right from the get go?  The pathetic thing is, everything we all created when it comes to money is just bullshit established by us to begin with.  Why the hell did we make it all impossible to ever do everything that should be our freedom in this country?

 

            We the people reserve the right to a life balancing income source.

            We reserve the right to proper consolidations and payments upon our budgets.

            We reserve the right to earning a living and obeying the laws.

            We reserve the right to stop being stressed out and having no answers ever to our needs.

            We reserve the right to be functioning communities and societies.

            We reserve the right to challenge any excuse toss our way.

 

            Punish those whom are the abusers of our system, not those who rather be a proper functioning citizen of our system.

            Punish those who commit the crimes, not punish those protecting themselves from crimes being committed onto them.

 

            Let’s regain control once more of our American Rights, our American Freedoms, and our American privileges.

 

            People live on this planet is a fact.  Let them live how they need to live.

 

            Let’s stop this financial terrorism and stop those suffering constantly from such financial terrorist.

 

            Prove to me I am not a victim of financial terrorism and let me earn my living, pay off my debts and do what is right for me.  Prove to me we don’t need to declare war on our own systems because we are way too ignorant in helping those in need.  Stop with the lies, stop with the entrapments, and get this country functioning again.

 

            Employ this country fast, now, and properly.  This is the only way to know for a fact we all still got tomorrow’s to still wake up towards.  I’m tired of my life being threatened by financial oppressions, financial abuse, financial molestations, frauds, fake businesses, empty business lies, and the constant idea to spend money to make money.  I’m tired of being a modern day victim of financial terrorism. 

 

            Unite and stop this nonsense now on all of our behalves before it does us all in.

Random Thoughts with Current Times.

April 29, 2009 by viodragon

Random Thoughts with Current Times

 

            Since I’ve been a little bit of a radical mental mess lately and do apologize for not being that on top of my writing in this regard.  I want to get some random thought out to all, continuing my quest to calm the chaos that has affected us all.

 

            I am fully determined that is people want people to spend money, they should allow people to earn the money they demand to spend.

 

            Granted I only know the random emails of such.  Non citizens should be force to gain citizen ship in this country in a one year time span and stop having life handed to them and acting over privilege.  No one is privileging me, they shouldn’t privilege others just as well.

 

            All people are equal.  Time to start treating everyone as such.

 

            I’m not fully sure where society stands lately with sex offense crimes.  I’ve gotten a sense that more people are now not as judgmental at least around me, but that could just be something territory as far as that goes.  While sex offenses and sex crimes are still problematic, there is still a need to help reduce or eliminate the ideas to even let the crime occur to begin with.  As long as we have this high stress, low tolerance, and very unsupportive and cooperative society in just making sure basic needs are always met; expect crimes to keep happening and continuing.

 

            It may be because I watch basically only 24 on television these days, but anyone else get the impressing this new Swine Flu issue is done on purpose somehow?

 

            I still don’t believe in conspiracy, and will believe anyone living up to conspiracy should be beaten within an inch of their stupid lives.  I won’t ignore the possibility of it going on and being true.

 

            Personal life is still stagnant and hellish at times.  Breaking good ground in the relationship world, while not 100% secure in that regards, it’s above 90%, which I can be certain of.

 

            I do get tired of who I am and what I can be capable of being two separate things.  Since when is wanting to live life simple and normal too impossible to ask for?  A forty hour a week job?  Being able to take care of myself?

 

            Should we make greed = terrorism?  That should balance power, if not force lots of bullets to fly their way, if they refuse to cooperate with the rest of the living planet and world.  I’m also not one for doom saying.  But just like conspiracy, I don’t pretend it cannot happen just because I don’t want it to.

 

            Do you realize that if everyone had their way and punished someone else for the littlest dislike out there, you know that whole hating “In god we trust,” or anything really.  You would have to execute and eliminate the planet.  Remember, to someone else’s eyes, you are other people.

 

            What ingenious allowed the ignorant of this planet to call themselves important and let them have their ways?  THAT WAS a bad IDEA!

 

            A little discipline and humility can go a long way.

 

            Just because this world isn’t perfect, does not mean we need to add into those imperfections.

 

            I have a new goal in giving appreciation to those who earn it and aren’t rewarded enough for it.  I also get a sense a lot of good moral values and standards have hurt us all in the long run.  Someone needs to keep those good standards alive.  I’ve volunteered with the greatest of ease.  How about yourselves?

 

            Keep fighting the good fight.  There is a reason why the motto of this country is “United We Stand.”  Let’s not forget that and remember what some army shows even said.  You are only as fast as your slowest member on your team. 

 

            Time to leave no person behind.  Keep humanity alive and well.

 

            Be good, be strong, and be safe.  Peace.

Social Life Crisis.

April 19, 2009 by viodragon

Social Life Crisis

 

            So it’s been way to long since I last practically did one of these.  Fighting tooth and nail to make my life easier somehow financially, amongst other aspects of my life just not happening, and the nightmare of taxes and underpaid work hours basically put me in a small situational depression tail spin.

 

            Fairly recently I was just piss off at the ignorance I seem to be put through.  Since when is asking to just live life normally and being allow to take care of myself too much to be asking for?  I’ve basically been a little too financial unstable and it now and then shows and rears its ugly head.

 

            For starters I just want 40 hours of work every week.  Not a bunch of business opportunist telling me their bullshit.  Not frauds trying to steal identity and funds with fraudulent checks and other nonsense.  Good old fashion w-2 I know I am earning my living work.  That is what will start making me feel overall better about my life.

 

            I am not without my positives from my past experience and frustration.  I had some very important things said to me that deserve to be shared.  Since I prefer to finish with positive, let me get back to this.

 

            Now, I just don’t want to even try and get into what and how immigrants get for being here compared to every day normal born Americans.  Those stories made me sick to my stomach.  Fending for ourselves may be one thing, but to flat out refuse to permit those who prefer to be able to do such is just disgusting. 

 

            I knew for years that major changes in this country had to begin somehow.  Such self proclaim powers need to watch themselves.  Rather they are politicians, oil company owners, whomever.  If this economical oppression and abuse continues too much longer, it can escalade into some highly unfavorable decisions having to be made.  I am going to be nice and responsible for what I write here since I would rather not be the one planting such brain seeds into the minds of those lesser in some mental strength ways than me.

 

            The history of America and oppression has always been the same.  We will change the names and other proper nouns, but the actions and results are all the same.  So rather it is all over money, religion, human sexuality of any sort, or anything else that drives someone out there to exercise hate over another person; exercise caution friends and start fighting with strong wills to make better positive changes.

 

            We all have yet begun to truly know what it means to be offended in life.  Pray you, I, or anyone is still alive if we ever do learn.  As it is said, it can always be worst.

 

            So to exercise my own preaching ways, let me get back to those important positive things recently said about me that should be shared.

“It feels good to be with someone who isn’t afraid to work.”  - Fellow merchandising worker out on location this past week.

 

“I like how you always go back to the positive no matter what happens.” – A good friend with some personal writing being shared with her in a book journal project I am working on.

 

“You always go back to being positive and I appreciate that about you.”  - A female friend who I am working on making my mate, hopefully. 

 

“You are a good true friend and I thank you for getting me this job.” – A friend of mine who move up to being a good friend to me and I helped him get hired on with my company.

 

This last quote goes back a couple years when I was full time employed with benefits and such, before I got unsavory pushed out of this wonderful job.  “You would be friends to everyone in the world if they let you.”  - Former regional manager.

 

These are the details that stick out for me.  These are the things in my life I know that I need to hear.

 

Rather we are talking about religion, politics, money, human sexuality, or anything else for that matter; our world is officially in a social life crisis.  Humanity itself lost too much sight in all the important aspects of living.  Blinded by hatred, ignorance, greed, and blatant stupidity.  We no longer hold values like we should be holding onto.  Sure, there are people out there who are, but they are becoming rarities.

 

So I am just a rarity of a scholar and a gentleman.  If being positive minded and nice is being wrong, then we may as well just admit we allowed terrorist to win the war.  I’m sure as hell not going there.

 

So to finalize, it dawned on me how we at the very least, lost how to reward appreciation.  We don’t really thank people enough and reward people enough for the hard work and good energy they can provide.  Since I’ve always been one for stopping an ounce of evil destroy a lifetime of good, I now have a new simple goal in life.  To always be thankful for those who do go above and beyond the call of duty however they can.

 

I’ll start by thanking every one of you for taking the time to read this blog.  So remember to keep fighting the good fight now and reward those who deserve to have their appreciations rewarded.

 

Be good, be strong, and be safe now.  Peace.

Frauds are funny people. Frauds 0- Me 2. *raspberries*

February 19, 2009 by viodragon

Frauds are Funny People

 

            So once again someone made a nice little attempt of trying to scam me and failed quite miserably.  I’m tempted to list finding of facts but rather just reiterate how important it is to let everyone know how important it is to be secure your information and know your right.

 

            First I want to mention that I feel bad for anybody in Nigeria who is a legitimate first rate business person, because fakes and frauds are giving anyone from this country such a bad rap.  I am thoroughly convinced if the country of Nigeria is ever mentioned with any possible business deal, you are being scammed. 

 

            Let me give some quick education to what being hired means in this country, USA. 

 

            ALL hiring jobs out there will produce paperwork for you to fill out.  It doesn’t matter if it is a business opportunity, 1099, or w-2, the only way you will legally earn money is to be involved with a pay roll of some sort.  Even sales require legal rights and agreed contracts.

 

            If someone is looking to hire you on, THEY HAVE TO PROVE that they are who they say they are first.  A phone call, hearing a person’s voice, web searching a legitimate website, viewing and witnessing actual business information that you can research and look up.  Every business out there who is legitimate can also looked up to check their registering for being a business,  (thus look for corporation, incorporated, etc.) when they became a business, and look into magazines or other publications to view their legitimate claim.

 

            While I am not an educated expert on business itself, and yes I realize maybe I should have, I make up for in understanding in other forms. 

 

            What really needs to be done to turn our economy around:

 

            Network, network, network!  Help people who you know get hired if they need work.   Also let people work.  No one can spend money if we don’t let them earn the money you want them to spend.

 

            Get back to taking care of your employees.  This is a sad lost of our recent history.  Too many people are out for themselves and no one, and I do mean no one, is able to take good care of their best workers.  Even if we wanted to, we’ve all become blinded by bottom lines rather than long term protections and securities.

 

            Exercise strong support.  Without an actual will power to make positive changes, the cycle of nonsense and crap will only keep repeating until it becomes too overbearing and we all witness a snapping of society and life itself on this planet.

 

            Be productive and not destructive.  I think we forget how much more beneficial this whole world can be when more positive energy is exercised over negative energy.  Pull together to build up life rather than take away life.  There are sadly a lot of people out there who’s primary income is base on your lack of understanding, you lack of well being, and you lack of knowledge on your rights.

 

            I only laugh at the pathetic attempt to scam me.  One more pointer to let you all know.

 

            Trust facts, not words. 

 

            You will never make money stuffing envelopes.  This is 100% scam and lie. 

            There is no such thing as at home data entry.  This is also fraud.

            There is legitimate business opportunity out there.  Read into a Money or Forbes magazine to look up legitimate company names.  Every establish business out there takes 5 years to grow before business booms like crazy.  I can tell you all that Prepaid Legal Services, Inc. (notice that inc. that I mentioned earlier) is a solid one to participate in, even though I am still excluded from being apart of at least their business end of things.

            The multi billions dollar industry known as the adult industry, only made me 90 dollars.  This could be a fine way to procure better money if one can find a legitimate business company that helps host proper and legal adult content.  Establishing 1-900 numbers that you control the rate of pay, companies that will help you maintain what you want on your site.  I recommend using ABEN, who allows you to pay per minute to watch what is out there in porn.  Cams.com doesn’t seem to work quite as well and hasn’t provide to be beneficial.  This just requires research, plus useful and helpful suggestions would not kill.  I find web cams to be a little too saturated and the way people try to advertise them to be annoying.  Honestly, more power to the rest of you, it’s just not my big thing.    

            Consistency is a good thing.  Help people get jobs where they know for a fact they will work these may hours on this shift every week.  Even if it means a couple of part time jobs to secure a 40 or slightly more hours per week. 

            I don’t know or understand the stock market well enough to try.  But there are ways to make decent money this way as well, but it is always long term investment.

            Help support better investment plans.  Savings accounts are what needs those credit card rates.  We all need ways to put away that 20 bucks a week every week and know for a fact that 10+ years from now we can take care of ourselves no matter what.

            Gambling isn’t reliable.  You would absolutely have to be a wiz on blackjack or poker to even stand a legitimate chance.  Don’t bet what you don’t got.  And sure, you can win if you don’t play, but you do have to know when to play and when to stop.

 

            It’s just time for our own society to understand that money is a necessity and an evil that has escape it’s true meaning and value.  Sure I’m still upset just a bit that I fight probably way too hard to achieve basically nothing in return, but I am sure one of these days I will be rewarded for all my hard efforts and energies somehow.

 

            So take care of yourself and don’t be afraid to watch out for each other.

 

            Also, don’t use Craigs list.  This has just turned into the cesspool for frauds and fakes.  I know of two totally free dating sites, plenty of fish (dot) com being the more popular one.  Online personals don’t seem to work for me, I find it better to just be out and about and find someone to talk to on a more consent basis.  I’m still working on who I love greatly now, we need to work on making something schedule wise between us work to be honest. 

 

            Anyways, without writing too much more out than what I can, and end up making this more of a book rather than a blog.

 

            Be good, be strong, and be safe my fellow reader.  Keep the peace and don’t be afraid to help someone out. 

 

            And for all you frauds out there.  Try earning your own life without stealing other people’s hard earn money away from them.  You’ll be surprise how much more rewarding, and less illegal, that can be.

 

            Peace.

Trial: Life, Juvenile, and more.

February 16, 2009 by viodragon

Trial: Life, Juvenile, and More.

 

            It is difficult to get much done anymore in these insecure times.  Thus I haven’t been able to write like I should be.  So this will be some updates, a new report that I read about, which actually supports something I’ve mentioned that is concern with your self and the law, upon maybe one or two other things as well, depending how this flows.

 

            So, trying to secure myself forty hours a week with my two jobs isn’t happening how I wish I could get it to happen.  I feel like I am somehow trying too hard to just make the simplest of expectations in life to happen.  Granted I am far from alone in this, but this is an ugly era of life anymore.  The main problem with economy is we all got too far away from making sure everybody is being taken care of.  Greed alone can kill this planet.

 

            Like I said, the human race is what matters the most.  Take care of all people equally, and the rest will surely follow.  Now, what does it take to get to this point, I’m not fully sure, but here is a recent news report I’ve read up on, where your lack of well being is indeed the job security (until busted by the law yourself) of someone else.

 

            A judge is in trouble for being paid over 2.6 million dollars to prosecute juveniles without proper legal representation and due process.  The problem here of course is the lives of the juveniles are being destroyed and due to improper procedures, now there is a large series of expunge cases to be looked at, which also just takes time and money.

 

            These teens were not given their right to an attorney, were not read their rights, and had no idea what is at stake.  Some crimes are petty misdemeanors.  Some slightly more serious crimes such as theft are also mentioned.   This is how the law can be damaging and illegitimate.  Obeying the law is one thing, exercising the correct law procedures is another.  The Constitution is written specifically to protect all citizens for a reason.  This judge was making a lot of money off of their lack of understanding, and some correction officers even notice that some people were being punish more than what the crime was worth.

 

            This is why I am against all forms of abuse.  What I went through myself was a learning experience to see things and understand things in life I don’t think I would have ever learned otherwise.  While there is still a lot of garbage going on in this world, we can all still unite to end the nonsense parts of it all.

 

            So rather people are at disagreement with your own religion, your sexual preference, your current social status, or any other means to isolate you; there is no excuse to destroying someone else’s life to procure their own.  Money is a very ugly and evil thing anymore.  There is no reason for money to be this way, outside of greed and corruption.  It all becomes stupid in the end.

 

            So now I am looking to attempt to secure a writing gig, in addition to the jobs I already have, to get myself into a better place.  While my problems are still nothing compare to other problems in this world.  They are still serious enough that I need a bone toss my way to get myself to a next level or I’m beyond screwed without anything to turn to and anywhere to go.

 

            Hopefully that won’t be the case.  Until then, may everyone keep their chins up and keep hanging in there.  Let’s try to support that helping each other is more profitable that hurting each other.

 

            Be good, be strong, and be safe now.  Peace.

Fraud to Hire (Screw) You and Life.

February 7, 2009 by viodragon

Fraud to Hire (Screw) You and Life

 

            Today’s updated blog is about your rights to know of work basis, or how someone tried to screw me in particular with thinking trust and proof are the same thing.  As well as a quick blurb on life, or in the saying “get a life,” which I’m thinking it’s time to start dissecting what that saying means in these modern times.

 

            I just recently ended a poor interview process of someone trying to hire me on at some pay rate of $50 an hour for some payroll processing data entry.  This guy is just a fraud who would use my information for bounce checks to be getting banks to come after me, while there is nothing information wise on him to follow up on.  He/she/(it) did enough homework to find a website called manta.com, so if anyone did a basic web browser search would find this site, but this individual in under no way, shape, or form apart of this site.

 

            Here is some fast information to help stop such frauds.

 

Trust facts, not words.  Anyone who may be trying to hire you online or by other means has to prove they are who they claim to be, show that there is indeed an actual business and what that business actually deals with.  Every business requires some base address, and must produce proper legal forms to hire you on, rather w-2 or 1099. 

 

Never give anything bank information online.  A direct deposit form is needed from any business if they want to use a deposit method into your account.  Always mail this form through the mail system, never scan and send into a company.

 

Protect your identity.  What really pisses me off is this ass holds my name, address, and phone number via my resume.  I’ll be rejoining PrePaid Legal very soon once more, and probably within a month time span because of this jackhole.

 

Interview process will hold several questions.  Thus one question doesn’t cut anything.  If something sounds too good to be true, it usually is.  Get facts and do your homework.  We can all sort out the fraud and fakes from the truth.

 

Know your local police number, know your county court house, and have access to a lawyer.  Prepaid legal can help with that very last bit, it’s probably the best and cheapest most necessary membership one can have.  Even though this company still isn’t taking me on and hiring me, I will support their cause.

 

            Now, I don’t know if there is even such a thing a third party data entry jobs out there.  Most likely not, but there is one validating point when it comes to this economy and work in general, I’ve mentioned it in previous blogs already, I’m bringing it up again.

 

OUR SOCIETY HAS TO PAY PEOPLE THE WORTH OF MODERN SOCIETY STANDARDS!

            The jobs only caring to pay 8 to 12 dollars per hour just don’t cut it.  I know some people can live on 35,000 a year, this boils down to just under 17 dollars an hour for a standard 40 hour week.  For the math difficult, that would be 35,000/52, which is about 673.08 a week (long decimal) and this divided by 40 is 16.83 per hour you would need to make for a base salary of 35,000 a year.

 

            I’ve always believe a politician who does the math should be someone running their position.  Here are a couple reasonable numbers one person could spend on average a month and what they should be earning a year.  All this before taxes, let me remind you.  For someone who would budget life on 3000 every month would have to earn and clear 36,000 every year.  3,500 every month is the equivalent of 42,000 every year.  BEFORE TAXES!

 

            How many people are indeed earning these levels of money?  This means that with being an honest tax payer, you have to earn, easily 50 to 60 thousand every year.

 

            This is just the mathematical reality of our modern life people.  This is what I mean to be paying people their worth.  3000 a month is about the cost of nothing more but a mortgage payment, insurances, utilities, property/school tax, and basic food to survive.  Should we get into the need for clothing, medical, auto and gas?  This is exactly why our economy suffers.  The cost of living is way to high and no one is willing to make sure anybody is earning the cost of living alone. 

 

            This actually ties in well with my next point to make.  The little saying, usually said out of spite and criticism, get a life.  It dawn on me just recently I think it’s time to analyze what this saying is suppose to mean.  As for the definition of life itself, well, every single one of us has that.  We breath, we eat, drink, and sleep, thus we all live, thus we have indeed a life, or some life force within us allowing us all to go through our trials and tribulations in this existence time span. 

 

            Now, how this is define in perceived how one individual sees what is the total package of modern life living; well, I can only guess at this opinion.  I am probably certain enough it deals with the usual American dream.  This would mean a wife, kids, and grandkids, owning a home, having a decent job, car, and living a good standard life.  All of this is fine and dandy unless something or someone is stopping you from having any one of these elements to life. 

 

            Let’s all just face this reality.  Life itself is far from perfect, so who is anyone to judge how a perfect life should be.  Some people want to date or want a good job, but cannot secure one no matter what they do or don’t do.  Some people want kids but can’t reproduce them.  Other people don’t want kids and end up reproducing like rabbits.  Anyway, let’s sum this all up like this.

 

            Instead of bitching about what we all don’t have in life, how about we GIVE the very life we all want people to GET for starters.  It’s so easy to complain.  Even easier to shrug off a truth that may apply to you but not apply to someone else as not being your problem.  Unless you, me, or anyone is at least trying to make a better difference; complaining and insulting is just wasted energy.

 

            I believe it’s just time to remember why all of this around us, our homes, our clothing, our electronics, from oil to the holy bible; the reason why all of this exist is because the human race itself exist.  We are all the only resource on this planet.  Let’s stop attacking the only resource this planet truly has then.

 

            Thus meaning stop with all the abuse levels; legal, illegal, money, work, religion, race, love, romance, sexual, nonsexual, financial, and every other possible way to abuse someone that I probably left out.  Most of this can be dealt with easily.  The economy may take some extra hard work, energy, and elbow grease to fix, but my worst concern lies here.  Money alone is attacking people’s ability to survive.  Survival on this planet is just like mortality, absolutely nothings, and I mean nothing can ever change this. 

 

            We all want a better life, but this is no excuse to take away some one else’s means to survive.  I just hope and pray it doesn’t take some super disaster for us all to realize such. 

 

            So no matter how imperfect life might get, and for whatever obstacles and barriers you have to overcome, I sign off once again.

 

            Be good, be strong and be safe now.  Know your rights and help support some part of life to help put a lot of this ugliness behind us all once and for all.  Peace.

 

Analize News Report: When Juviniles Sex Offend.

January 25, 2009 by viodragon

News Story Analyze: When Juveniles Sex Offend

 

            To finally get back on track with the main reason why I’ve open this blog, I want to share my thoughts on a recent news article recently read this past week in regards to some young teenagers in trouble with the law because they took nude photos of themselves with camera phones.

 

            Since that is the short summary of the crime, there are several teenagers out there who the federal government has to punish with child pornography, since all recipients are under 18 years of age, where it seems they may skip the incarceration portion and just go right to a parole/probation with having to be registered with Megan’s Law for 10 years. 

 

            Here are the concerns that come about from such a story.  The teenagers in question don’t realize how damaging such simple actions can be until after it is all said and done.  Because of digital electronics, people outside those who initially took and receive such photos could spread beyond such said involved participants, underestimating how such actions could be damaging. 

 

            I would hazard a guess, since the ages mention seem to be 14 and 15 that these teenagers will have some tough times ahead of them until they are 25 to 26 years of age, when they leave the need to be registered with Megan’s Law.

 

            I believed I blogged about child porn law before, but I will do so again to jog some memories and to state the law being broken.  The title of child pornography is actually Sexual Abuse of Children.  The first part of this law is definition while the next three parts are the felony descriptions.  Part two is making the porn of children, part three distribution of porn of children, and part for is being in possession of.  The first two main parts, making and distributing are felony charges of the second degree.  Being in possession of is a felony of the third degree.

 

            Since what was done is considered innocent enough, but could be damaging without the overall realization of what they done, they are all fortunate in regards since they would be charged with making and distributing. 

 

            How to handle such an issue.

 

            One of the major lessons I’ve picked up the hard way of understanding is there is a major division line between human sexuality and our very attitude towards human sexuality.  These teens could have the rest of their lives utterly destroyed, but I will tell all now, this doesn’t need to be the case.

 

            Don’t go out of your road to make their life hell.  There is a wonderful saying of two wrongs don’t make a right.  What I’ve discovered is when it comes to human sexuality; we all got a couple hundred billion wrongs to be un-piling here.  While I may be exaggerating, I am also probably underestimating as well.

 

            Replace fear and paranoia with focus, determination, and education.  While many may not know or realize what they are doing, they also aren’t addressing any of the issues with human sexuality except for continuing a bad, negative downward spiral.  These teens will still be apart of everyday society.  They will need a proper education, they will still need jobs and careers, and they are still human just like everyone without a criminal record.  Even all the adults in trouble with the law for whatever sex crimes were committed need the same helping treatment.

 

            Rather we want to use terms like adult conspiracy, believe sex can only be abusive or taboo, mention how kids are growing up too fast these days, not being raised properly, etc.  Our whole society has developed a very piss poor attitude towards one of our fundamental emotional drives (also mentioned in a few of my previous blogs). 

 

            What I believe with this read news story is what these teens did wasn’t all that abnormal.  They just sadly not realize that they broke federal law in which, if they were all over the age of 18, wouldn’t even apply. 

 

            So no matter how we want to view and perceive all of this, here are my own tidbits of advice to help put an end to this aspect of sex offense and get a better understanding of human sexuality.

 

  • Stop making human sexuality destructive.  There is no excuse or reason for any of us to not host responsibility towards our sexual drives and urges in life.  While absence before marriage may be ideal, this isn’t going to be the truth for all people.  No does mean no, but life is a two way street.  There are those who are upon the yes who don’t deserve to be oppressed just because their life style differs from your life style point of view.
  • Age limitation may be a great standard, it isn’t a given.  Age, maturity, and responsibility don’t go quite as hand in hand as we all expect.  I’ve stated before that I believe some of the most responsible people of all time are within their later teen age years.  I will sooner apologize for not taking the time to help someone understand rather than having no choice to apologize to the newly made victims because no one tried to help understand.
  • Education is the key.  I could add communication to this as well.  Since people lack ESP powers and such, the only way to know for sure is to ask questions and give proper responses to ask questions.  We have a large idea on people living up to expectancy, yet I wonder if people even know what all this expectancy is?  Teach the youth and those in college what all the sex offense laws are, what the ramifications could be for breaking such law, and even how to change or prevent such laws to be broken or even go as far as stop needing them to exist at all.  Knowledge after all is power, and we all need to stop knowing what we want to know, and start knowing the absolute truth.
  • Use solid individual judgment when such crimes do become committed.  From what I can tell, even from my own situation in life, there are different laws that can be pushed onto these teenagers, instead of this one federal law.  I think it may be a bit late now for this to occur, I’m not the best to say when it comes to legal matters, but never fear analyzing any individuals overall situation and adjust punishment, including tossing out the case, to keep such lives intact.  I think we can all know the difference from crimes like this one and how they should be handled, vs. the serious sex offense crimes that do still sadly occur. 
  • Allow life to progress and move forward.  While it may be one thing to exercise your right to know, keep in mind that the US Constitution does protect citizens who broke the law as much as those who don’t ever break the law.

 

Other things I can mention, but don’t want to be making this blog too long, I’ll list out for you all like this.

 

Just because our world isn’t perfect doesn’t mean we need to go out of our way to make even more imperfections or anything worse than what it is.

 

Create programs, systems, and support groups to get all of our fundamental needs back into balance.  Whatever programs need to be made to balance all of our physical, mental, social, and financial life.  Also keep programs alive to cover our emotional fundamental drives of thirst, hunger, protection (as in clothing on our bodies and roofs over our heads), and sexuality.

 

In someone else’s mind, you are other people.  It’s a novel saying I heard once.  Good solid advice to remember.

 

What holds true for you holds true for you.  It might be true for other people, but won’t always be true for all people.  We forget, even when exercising good intents, that we now and then cross the line by pushing views upon others who may disagree with that perception.  Rather this is law, religion, or some other aspect in life, we all need to comprehend better that this planet may only seem to revolve around us as individuals, it still doesn’t.

 

Life is what we make it out to be.  Letting you be scarred for life psychologically is a decision.  I believe if we keep reinforcing anyone out there that they can never live life normally again, you only create more harm than good.  While I am also no expert on this either, ask yourself this question.  Will you let the bad things of life control you, or do you want to be the one who controls your own life?

 

            So rather the problem of human sexuality is to be seen as oppression, an excuse to make men a minority, a problematic fear and paranoia upon but some individuals, something that needs to be better owned up to and understood, something that we all need to stop being so lazy and uncaring about, to even a vehicle to allow some people’s lack of well being be other peoples paychecks or job security measures, and even a psychological terrorist warfare tactic that we all bought into hook line, and sinker; hatred, paranoia, and ignorance will never resolve this problem in life.

 

            Only with a better open mind, a better education and a better understanding, can we all help put and end to sex offense.  Separate the nonsense crimes from the legitimate inexcusable crimes.  Even prevent crime from occurring to begin with.  Ask yourself this, what is your anti-crime?

 

            Those teenagers may have some un-fun life ahead of them, but they do have a whole life ahead of them.  It will be better to be supportive, and not destructive, and give them all a fighting chance to grow up still into probably some of the best important people someone else in this world may need to know about.

 

            Be good, be strong and be safe now.  Thank you for reading my blogs.  I hope my own shared experience is making a better difference to someone else out there.  Peace.